For males, masturbation is the act of manually stimulating the penis to produce pleasure.
(If you've ever walked in on someone and saw him rubbing himself down there, or if he suddenly
covered himself up, or if he was in bed alone and acted like you interrupted him, he may have
been masturbating.) For adults and older teens, masturbation usually ends with ejaculation
(ee-JACK-you-LAY-shun), in which the liquid that contains sperm cells, semen (SEE-min), is
ejected from the penis. Ejaculation is usually accompanied by orgasm (OR-gaz-im), a
whole-body feeling that (for most people) is so powerful and pleasurable it cannot be
compared to any other feeling the human body can experience.
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Why Masturbate?
If you've ever masturbated to ejaculation, you know the answer to this question! In
addition to feeling so good, masturbating relieves sexual tension that builds up
naturally over time. Just about every male in his teens or older gets "horny," in which
his mind gets preoccupied by erotic (sexy) thoughts. This is a natural process: Your sex
organs produce and accumulate semen, and your body responds by causing you to want to
ejaculate the semen and make room for more semen. One way this happens is through a
nocturnal emission or "wet-dream" - an ejaculation during sleep. Another way is through
masturbation. (Guys who masturbate regularly often don't experience nocturnal emissions.)
Important to know! Despite what you may have heard (either through rumors from friends or
from older people), masturbation is completely safe. It does not affect the size of your
penis. It doesn't cause your penis to curve when it's erect - actually, few penises grow
to be perfectly straight. It doesn't affect your ability to have children later on. It
doesn't stunt your growth. It doesn't cause testicular cancer. Masturbation is a great
way to practice for intercourse when you're ready for it and have met the right person.
How old do you have to be to Masturbate?
If you can read this, you're old enough to masturbate! You may, though, be too young to ejaculate. Most boys begin to ejaculate semen when they're between the ages of 12 and 15, although some begin ejaculating at a later or earlier age. You can still masturbate and even have orgasms before you're old enough to ejaculate. However, for most males, the best-feeling orgasms are those that are accompanied by the ejaculation of a good amount of semen. In fact, some guys like to "save it up" by not masturbating for a while, so they can have an extra-good orgasm with a bigger-than-average ejaculation.
Is there anything physically wrong with masturbation?
Nothing at all. Years ago it was commonly believed that masturbation caused blindness,
insanity, hairy palms (!), or other disorders - even though back then, like now,
masturbation was extremely common. All of these terrible beliefs have been disproved
through modern science, even though the rumors and old wives' tales persist.
(If those stories were true, there would be an awful lot of blind, insane, hairy-palmed
people running around!) Masturbation is not "sick," it is not only for gay people, it
is not harmful in any way, and - of course - it's a whole lot of fun.
That's not to say, though, that every masturbation method is safe for your penis.
Read about masturbation safety - the do's and don'ts of getting creative with masturbation.
Are you a "loser" if you masturbate?
Absolutely, positively not! You've probably heard somebody call someone else a
"jerk-off" as an insult, or heard someone imply that he doesn't need to masturbate
because he gets "real" sex. That's all a bunch of B.S.! Trust us - in almost every
case like this, the person who's throwing around such insults actually does masturbate,
feels guilty about it, and then uses his insults to make others feel guilty about
masturbating. It's a horrible, vicious circle that keeps everyone feeling guilty about
this wonderful thing our bodies can do. The cycle can stop only when you realize that
almost everyone masturbates - even grown, married men who get all the "real" sex they
want. When you can say that you masturbate and you're proud of it (even if you say it
only to yourself), you realize the real losers are the people who lie to themselves
and to others in order to make everyone unhappy.
Can you masturbate too much?
For the first few months or years after they discover masturbation, almost all guys
masturbate more often than they ever will in their lives. It's not uncommon for a
13- or 14-year-old to masturbate 3, 4, or even 5 or 6 times per day. (We even heard
from a fellow who once managed to orgasm 22 times during a 24-hour period!) It's not
surprising, then, that some guys worry they may be doing it too much. It is possible
that time spent masturbating could be put to more productive use - but if you would
have spent it just watching TV or something, don't worry about it. Just enjoy it and
know that in a couple of years, you'll probably throttle back on your masturbatory
habits somewhat.
How much masturbation is "normal"?
There is no "normal" frequency of masturbation. You cannot "run out" of sperm
(any more than you can "run out" of spit), so you can masturbate as often as you like.
The worst thing that can happen is your penis might get a little sore. (Rub any part
of your body that much and the same thing will happen!) In any group of healthy
high-school- or college-age guys, some masturbate several times a day, some once
a day, and some only once or twice a week or less. There are also a few who never
masturbate - either because they don't have the urge, or because for whatever
reason they have found a way (and a reason) to resist the urge. But for a young
guy to be able to resist masturbating requires very strong will power - and frankly,
we just don't see the point.
Is my penis big enough?
This is a very common worry among teenagers. But rest assured you can have a great
time masturbating (and having two-person sex) with just about any penis size. Now,
you might worry about how you "measure up" to other guys. You may get insecure in the
locker room, especially if you see a lot of older boys with larger genitals. Or maybe
you've happened across an erotic video showing a guy who got the job because of his
exaggerated anatomy. But it's important to know that while the sizes of non-erect
penises vary greatly, for the vast majority of the population, the sizes of erect
penises don't vary quite as much. A larger penis that flops around and a smaller,
stubby penis may be virtually the same size when they're erect - so don't stress
out about it so much.
What's average? Well, most grown men have erect penises that measure about 5 or 6
inches from the base to the tip. If you're in your early teens, you almost certainly
have some growing left to do, and some people have reported that their penis continued
to grow until they were 17 or 18 - but for most guys, it pretty much reaches adult size
by about age 16. We'll talk about some techniques and how they relate to penis size
in a moment.
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How does a guy masturbate?
Many males discover masturbation by accident, when one day they're rubbing their penis and
it feels so good they don't stop until they have an orgasm. But there are finer points to
masturbation, and there are many ways to make it more enjoyable.
There will be times when you feel a strong need to masturbate when it isn't convenient.
In this case you may want to ejaculate as quickly as possible, perhaps in the bathroom.
That's fine - but you should know masturbation, like two-person sex, is much more
pleasurable when you can relax and take your time. If you have your own bedroom and can
close the door, you can have a great masturbation session every night and perhaps every
morning, too. If you share your room, you can masturbate privately in the bathroom or
shower. Or, you can wait for your brother to fall asleep and masturbate quietly under
your covers. But if he hears you, be prepared to answer some questions!
Some guys masturbate by lying on their stomach and rubbing their penis against their
bed. A more common technique involves lying on your back and rubbing your penis with
a hand (or hands). In this position, when you ejaculate, the semen will end up onto
your chest or stomach, so it will be easy to clean up. (You'll probably want to pull
up or take off your pajama top or T-shirt, so as not to wet it with semen, and you'll
want to have a roll of toilet paper or a box of Kleenex handy.)
Just about every successful masturbation session begins with getting an erection
(ee-RECK-shun), commonly called a "hard-on," "boner," or "woody." An erection occurs
when your penis fills with blood to the point that it becomes quite a bit larger and
firm to the touch, usually sticking straight out from your body or angled upward as
you stand. (If you're lying on your back, your erect penis might rest against your
abdomen.) Getting an erection is usually as easy as thinking sexy thoughts and
rubbing your penis. If you're going through puberty, or if you haven't ejaculated
in a while, you may not have to do anything to get an erection - they can happen
spontaneously, or without provocation. This is normal and just one of those puberty
things everyone has to deal with.
Once your penis has reached its full length and hardness, take a hold of it and rub it
lengthwise at a consistent rate. This will mimic what it feels like to move your penis
in and out of a woman's vagina, which is what happens during sexual intercourse.
Here are four basic "grips" you can try. They're really just starting points; it's
important for you to try little variations on them, as this will allow you to choose
techniques that feel best to you
The Fist Method
In this common technique, you simply wrap your fingers around the shaft of your penis
like a baseball bat and rub it up and down. It provides lots of contact between your
hand and penis - and more contact means more pleasure.
This technique is especially good if you have a big penis; if it isn't much longer than
your fist is wide, you won't be able to stroke it very far, so another grip might be
more effective.
The Five-Finger
In this technique, your hand and arm form an angle with your penis, with four fingers
on top of the shaft at a diagonal and your thumb below.
This allows you to get more control over the hand-to-penis contact, and it lets you move
your hand along the entire length of the shaft, even if your penis isn't very large.
The Three-Finger
This one is good if you have a smaller penis. Simply hold the penis as you would a pen
or a pencil.
This grip allows maximum control and maximum distance of motion (from the base of the
penis all the way to the head), but the hand-to-penis contact is less than with the other
grips.
The Backhand
This one - kind of a backwards version of the "fist" - is a little funny, but it feels
very good. This time, grab your penis from the left side rather than the right (if you're
right-handed).
To do this, rotate your wrist so your thumb is pointing down; you may have to pull your
penis slightly to the side. It's a little awkward at first, but it's an excellent grip
to use when you just want to try something other than the "Fist" for a few minutes.
Slang Terms
Common slang terms for masturbation: jacking off, jerking off, whacking off, beating
off, spanking the monkey.
Common slang terms for ejaculation: coming, shooting your wad, spooging.
Common slang terms for semen: cum, jizz, spooge.
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