In a society where sexual pleasure and guilt are associated, it's not surprising
that sex toys have gotten a bad rap just for being themselves. It goes without saying
that sex toys are best enjoyed with no guilt attached. They require no justification;
sex toys are pleasure for pleasure's sake. They offer us a unique opportunity to
explore our bodies in new and exciting ways. You'll no doubt discover more about
sexual desire and probably discover a few new erogenous zones as well. Sex toys
are simply a gateway to pleasure.
Benefits of Using Sex Toys
For those of us in monogamous relationships, it's often difficult to explore
our sexual fantasies. Being faithful is more important than living out your
deepest desires. Toys give us the opportunity to indulge our fantasies in a
completely safe environment. In this sense, sex toys can be an extremely helpful
addition to any loving relationship. It's nearly impossible for one person to
satisfy every facet of another's desire. Sex toys can help by providing a new
element to your sexual ritual without the complications of the actual
realization of your fantasies.
An uninspired performance in the bedroom can be a real strain on your relationship.
With the daily stresses of life, sex can often take a back seat to more pressing
matters. Whether it's families or careers, our lives are busier than ever and
intimacy often feels the squeeze. So why not introduce something a little risquŽ
to the proceedings? Sex toys give couples a chance to explore each other and
have a light-hearted laugh along the way. Adult toys are a wonderful way to spice
up your sex life.
Sex toys are good for you! There are some interesting and well-documented health
benefits associated with the use of sex toys.
During menopause, most women experience some thinning of the vaginal wall. Studies
indicate that the regular use of a dildo can help maintain vaginal tone.
Women who have trouble reaching orgasm can also benefit from the use of sex toys.
Many leading experts on the subject recommend the use of a vibrator to help
overcome orgasmic difficulty.
Here are some brief descriptions of our different toy categories.
Bondage
Bondage play, of any kind, is a very forbidden form of sex. Because of all the
myths and misconceptions about bondage and S&M (see Misconceptions article),
many are surprised to find that they really like it. Bondage Toys are a great way
to enhance sexual play. They are not something that has to be used every time you
have sex, but some do because it's so erotic to do.
Why would someone want to be all tied up and/or beaten?
In order to explain why someone would want to buy a bondage toy, we must first
explore why someone would want to explore this type of play in the first place.
And there are many reasons, none that consist of the people being crazy or devil
worshippers.
It creates a strong emotional bond between lovers.
Giving your body and your mind up to your lover is a way of telling your lover
that you completely trust him/her to pleasure you the way you like to be
pleasured. Giving yourself in this way is very erotic.
It's very exciting.
Having your lover tie you up, teasing you and pleasing you and knowing that you
can't touch him/her and not knowing what he/she is going to do to you next can
be extremely exciting. It creates a strong feeling of anxiety and desire that
you don't get to feel without bondage play. For the dominant, being able to
have such control over your lover is a great turn on. Knowing that he/she is
giving up control of their body to do whatever you wish to, within your
lover's boundaries of course. It's a great mind fuck, excuse my language.
Discipline
the following are such as Whips & Restraints for total control.
>> Click here to
visit our Discipline section.
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Ona Zee's Beginners B&D Kit
Experience the pleasure of surrender and authority! The Ona Zee's Beginners
B&D Kit includes Instructional video, leather wrist restraints, leather paddle,
latex whip, collar, 2 tie-off straps / leash, and a blindfold. |
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Hand Cuffs
These metal handcuffs come with a 2 deluxe keys and rings with a special polished finish |
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Lover's Connection Full Body Harness
Restrain your Passions with the Lover's Connection Full Body Harness. Fully adjustable
restraint with nylon/Velcro closures. All cuffs lined. Legs detachable. |
Attire
the following is bondage/latex/leather attire to spice up your sex
life. Dress and serve to please.
Visit our Attire sections:
Discipline : Latex : Leather
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Leather & Chains 3-Ring Teddy
Tantalizing and sexy! Show your partner who's boss! Genuine supple leather
with non-tarnishing rings and chains; one size fits most. |
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Latex Teardrop Halter & Panty
Show off your guns with Nitro Gear's Teardrop Halter and Panty! Revealing,
comfortable jet-black shiny, super-stretchy, durable, one size fits most. |
Books & Videos
The following collection of sex guides and how-to books will help you explore the
sensual side of humanity; why we desire the things we do, and how we can do it
better. Discover what makes you tick and how you can tickle it. Listed are just a
few books/videos on on this page. For a better selection please visit our
Books Section or
our Video section.
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Acts of Love Book
The ultimate guide to sexual fulfillment. Learn new sexual techniques, how
to please your partner and more. Highly Recommended! |
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Sexual Positions Book I
New and unique photographs show exciting...SEXUAL POSITIONS! Sexual intercourse in more
different positions than ever...in micro-clear ACTION photos. 56 pages in Blazing COLOR! |
Dildos & Dongs
Dildos are non vibrating sex toys used for oral, anal and/or vaginal penetration.
They can look like an erect penis, some even come complete with veins and testicles.
The newer styles are shaped like everything from corn cobs to diving dolphins to a
work of art. They're made from a variety of different materials, some easy to clean
and some not so easy. Sizes range from finger slim to fist wide.
Using dildos or just the idea of using dildos goes back many centuries. The idea of
them has been recorded in paintings and sculptures as far back as the fourth and
fifth centuries. The Book of the Kama Sutra features early dildos made of wood,
leather and stalks. These recordings show not only women but men using them as
well. So this toy, like many others, applies to no specific gender. But why would
anyone want to use them? They don't vibrate. They don't twist. They don't
rock-n-roll. So, why bother using them? Well, the following will shine some
light on the subject.
Good Vaginal Therapy
Men who go through a sex change, find that a dildo is invaluable and is even
prescribed by their doctors. The vagina that is created is not very elastic
and needs to be worked. That's where the dildo comes into play, especially
right after surgery. By inserting the dildo daily, the vagina will stay elastic
and not close up.
Fulfillment
Some people like the sensation of feeling fulfilled in their vagina or anus.
Whenever a toy, penis, etc. penetrates the vagina or anus, the muscles contract
around it. Many people find this tightening of the muscles to be extremely pleasurable.
Visual and Mental Stimulation
Your most erogenous zone is your mind. And as much as many feminists won't
admit, the penis is a symbol of power, no matter how great or small, it's still
associated with power. Penetrating your partner with a dildo can make a fantasy
of power play reality.
Penetrating your partner with a dildo gives you a real up close and personal view
of your lover's vagina or anus accepting the dildo. Some people find this to be
extremely erotic, to see their lover pull in the dildo and push out as they get
more excited. Men can't get this up close and personal view when he's penetrating
his partner with his own penis.
Exploration
When used alone, a dildo can help a person experiment with different forms of
penetration without the anxiety of a lover being present. This is especially
true with anal penetration. Maybe you want to try it, but are unsure if it's
as pleasurable as you may think. Instead of diving in with your partner, using
a dildo alone can give you the experience without worrying about embarrassment.
Oral Sex
As you're engaging in oral sex on your partner, why not use a dildo to
penetrate her at the same time? Fingers and hands are very erotic, but
using a dildo can also be very pleasurable for her and will ease fatigue
and stress that the giver may experience after a while.
Safe Sex
Dildos can be a very good form of safe sex. As long as your dildo is wearing
a condom, you'll never have to worry about infecting yourself with dangerous
bacteria and you can share your toy with a partner. Just change the condom
before your partner uses it.
A Sure Thing
A dildo will never turn you down or tire out. You can use it whenever you want for
as long as you want. The only downer is it doesn't cuddle after, but then again,
it can't complain either!
Dildo & Varieties
the following is a brief selection of Dildos. Visit our
Dildo sections:
Jelly and Specialty : Realistic Collection : Butt Plugs & Anal Stimulators :
Strap-Ons :
Supercock
Lotions, Lubes and Creams
There are a variety of Lotions, Lubes and Creams available. Some are just for fun
with different scents and flavors others serve a purpose such as lubrication while
having sex. Below is a densitizing cream used to keep the penis erect for longer
during sex.
Men's Toys
Masturbation Sleeves
The ultimate male pleasure toy, a masturbation sleeve is simple to use: you insert
your penis into the soft, warm masturbator and pump away. Made from a variety of substances, masturbators can be shaped like flashlights, beer cans, extra-large penises or realistic vaginas, and are usually internally coated with silicone or Cyberskin meant to simulate vaginal walls.
While masturbation sleeves are an ideal nightstand choice for the single man, there's no reason why men in partnerships can't use them, too. Many couples enjoy having a pleasure chest stocked with fun items for both partners, either to use alone, together or side-by-side. If you've never tried a masturbator, you might consider it. Like a dildo or vibrator for women, masturbators offer a degree of control over your orgasm that many men find exciting and satisfying.
Erection Rings or Cock Rings
Erection rings restrict the flow of blood from the penis, creating a pleasurable feeling of tightness and pressure, prolonging erection, and delaying ejaculation. Usually worn at the base of the penis behind the scrotum, some men enjoy erection rings around the base of their penis only. It really depends on size and personal preference.
You may find it easiest to put on an erection ring before your penis is erect, but you'll want to experiment to find what works best for you. You should remove the ring as soon as it becomes uncomfortable -- no longer than 20 minutes or so. Beginners should play around with different durations, just to make sure they don't hurt themselves. In order to avoid unpleasant snaps, snags or yanking, you may want to trim or shave the hair in the area where you'll be wearing the strap or ring, or use a little lubrication to grease the wheels.
Penis Enlargement - Penis Pumps
A vacuum/suction device used for drawing the blood into the penis, a penis pump either slightly enlarges your erection or helps you achieve a more powerful one. These toys don't have any kind of permanent lengthening effect, but the temporary illusion can be quite exciting, both to the eye and to the touch. Also, as blood rushing to the penis is usually a good thing, the stimulation produced by penis pumps can be very satisfying.
While men with erectile problems have used these toys for years, most men find the suction these toys produce -- whether it be gentle or powerful -- intensely enjoyable. Some men use penis pumps to ready themselves for partner intercourse. Others use them to achieve a strong orgasm. Another option is to use the pump for achieving orgasm while exploring a partner with your other hand. See? The options are numerous -- and pleasurable!
Vibrators
A vibrator is an electrical or battery powered device that vibrates and is used to induce sexual pleasure. A vibrator gives pleasure by increasing blood flow and energy to whatever part of the body it is put up against. It can be used on the internal or external genitalia.
A vibrator is a wonderful toy. They range in price from really cheap to rather pricey, but whichever one you choose to use will be a pleasurable addition. A vibrator has a reputation of being a woman's only toy, but that doesn't mean that men can't use it on a woman or with a woman. And you know what? Some men also find vibrators pleasurable for their own use. Let's explore:
Clitoral Stimulation
A vibrator is a great toy to use for clitoral stimulation. Some women can't achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation and most positions for vaginal intercourse do not provide stimulate the clitoris. Vibrators provide that constant, consistent stimulation that a hand or tongue may not be able to provide after long periods of time. Vibrators are known to bring about the most intense orgasms. Some women, depending on the type of vibrator used and the sensitivity of the woman, can bring a woman to orgasm in 60 seconds or less. That does happen to me. Talk about a quickie!
A Lover's Place Holder
Some women also have long fuses, by this I mean that some women really need a lot of stimulation, for a long period of time before they can achieve orgasm. A vibrator is great because even after her partner climaxes and may need a period of rest, (don't worry it's okay to say you can't go on) the vibrator can keep going and keep stimulating her until her lover is ready to come back into the game or until she climaxes herself. There are many nights that my lover climaxes first and I know he can't continue thrusting, it's just not possible for men, they need to recharge, and that's fine, we just grab a vibrator, our favorite is the Jack Rabbit Vibrator. This keeps me stimulated while he recharges or brings me orgasm, finishing off our sexual play. It's actually heaven sent for some men. They don't have to worry about keeping an erection or ejaculating prematurely, just grab the vibe and finish her off.
Multiple O' Generator
Vibrator use has also helped some women achieve multiple orgasms. Women have been known to be able to have different orgasms from different types of stimulation and each one gives off a different sensation. A vaginal orgasm is different from a clitoral orgasm which is different from an anal orgasm. So when Betty Dodson, the Mother of Masturbation, says, "No two orgasms are alike," she's absolutely right. Do you agree with that statement? If you have no answer, maybe you should take a night to find out. The Hitachi Magic Wand, also known as the "Cadillac of Vibrators" has a reputation of helping many women become multi-orgasmic.
Stimulation For Different Times In Life
Some pregnant women find that a vibrator is great for sexual stimulation later on in their pregnancy. Just because they're pregnant, doesn't mean they don't want to be sexually pleasured. It has also been used to relieve pain, tension and soreness.
As some women get older they experience a decrease in sensitivity in their genitals. Although this is a natural fact of life, it doesn't have to stop a woman from experiencing sexual pleasure. A vibrator can provide that more intense stimulation to bring an older woman to orgasm.
Men
Vibration Pleasures
Vibrators can also help men achieve orgasm when held against their testicles or pressed up against their perineum. By applying vibrations to the perineum, you will be externally stimulating the prostate, which many men find pleasurable and even more men don't realize they like until they experience it.
Pleasure For Two
There are even vibrating toys out there that can provide pleasurable vibrations for both man and woman at the same time. The Diving Dolphin is our most popular couple's toy. The jelly cock ring helps the man maintain a stronger, longer erection and the two bullet vibes provide separate testicular and clitoral stimulation. Sharing this type of stimulation provides a special kind of excitement that can bond couples even closer during lovemaking.
A Soft O'
Some men that have trouble becoming erect find that a vibrator can help them to achieve orgasm even though they're not erect.
Safe Sex
Using a vibrator alone is the safest form of sexual pleasure you can receive.
Convinced yet?
No?
That's okay, lots of people have been conditioned into believing that sex toys of any type are bad or abnormal. So do not give up! Keep reading, there's still a lot more information for you to absorb and digest before making a final decision. There's lots of information within this site that can make your vibrator play more pleasurable, because adult toys don't come with instructions.
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Climbing Gecko Stimulator
The Climbing Gecko is the first stimulator that combines both thrusting and clitoral action. Sensationally scented soft jelly exterior and independent high-tech I.C. controls provide a full range of pleasurable experiences. 4 AA batteries. See our full selection of Vibrators. |
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